well now ...ifs thats how its going to be ....maybe i wont just be bothered to go...plenty of other places to be going and people to be cooking for ...especially my 1 year old, god bless her she will realise one day how bad her daddys meal rustle ups have been while mummy was working ..gettin car mot,d this month and taxed from start of april so i suppose unless i read or see any more abuse from my supposed mates i,ll be there..